Dating men felt like a chore and like it was an obligation. Dating women felt comfortable and warm.

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spent a long time wrestling with my sexuality, but what did it was realizing i literally never developed a natural crush on a guy. the “crushes,” i had were always like. picked? like i had to do that shit on purpose, which i think i did because i thought i was bi and wanted to validate my queerness. idk, my journey was messy as hell, made worse by the fact that i’m also trans.

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