LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | Hey yall, I’m straight but need some help. I keep getting hit on by dudes at my gym. I’m flattered but it keeps happening even after politely saying thank you but I’m straight. I don’t want to be mean or homophobic, but how do I get it to stop?

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LGBTQIA+ 5w

Hey yall, I’m straight but need some help. I keep getting hit on by dudes at my gym. I’m flattered but it keeps happening even after politely saying thank you but I’m straight. I don’t want to be mean or homophobic, but how do I get it to stop?

Anonymous 5w

more details? Is it the same guy over and over or a more general problem? Also what specifically are they doing/saying?

Anonymous 5w

your gym is probably a cruising spot, go to another

Anonymous 5w

how sure are you that it’s actually gay guys and not just gym bro straight guys. they’re like that sometimes

Anonymous 5w

Just politely say, “hey that makes me a little uncomfortable” and they should stop

Anonymous

#1 5w

General problem, with a one or 2 repeaters lol. Mostly harmless flirting. Some are alittle more “aggressive” basically making eye contact with my crotch lol. Stuff like that

Anonymous

#2 5w

Yes that’s fair. I could be wrong about some of them buuuut the stuff like “hey daddy” is kinda a indicator lol

Anonymous

#3 5w

Like a spot guys intentionally go to for meeting other guys?

Anonymous

OP 5w

i’m not sure that’s true lol unless your gym has an abnormally high gay population

Anonymous

OP 5w

well sorta kinda it means it’s more seen as a place where gay guys can meet up and maybe hookup