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LGBTQIA+ 1w

seafoam_grad

 It lowkey scares me. I am extremely attracted to my partner, that will never change, but the more I think about it the more I question weather I’m pan or just a lesbian. It’s been eating at me, I don’t know how to tell my partner or how to nav this
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Anonymous 1w

For the record I do NOT want to break up with my partner but I can’t stop thinking about it. I’ve been playing and creating characters and stories in my head with fictional people trying to figure it out, and its not gonna change how I feel about my partner but at the same time ugg

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Anonymous 1w

do you think your partner would look at you differently based on how you identify?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

No, not unless I told them imma break up with them over it which I do not want to do at all, idk why but my brain gets all hyper focused on something if there isn’t an answer if that makes sence? Im scared cause I don’t have an answer and my brain can really only think of my attraction to men rn, but I have nothing but love & support and want for my partner

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Anonymous replying to -> seafoam_grad 1w

i don't imagine i can convince your brain to feel otherwise but it's completely normal and okay to feel confused about stuff like this. it doesn't make you dishonest or a bad person at all, and it's okay to not be sure. you'll figure it out in time, and even if you don't, that's okay too.

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Anonymous replying to -> seafoam_grad 1w

i don’t know how to put this in a way that isn’t blunt/maybe shitty but like. it doesn’t matter dawg. labels are helpful for finding community and relation to others but you don’t have to define yourself. life is inconsistent and so we can be too

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