Anonymous OP 2d

sometimes muscles don’t supplement a personality

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Anonymous #1 1d

Why are u being mean? Im just asking a question. What am i supposed to talk about in the club i cant hear shit?

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Anonymous OP 1d

things seem different now then they were 30 years ago, i think you’ll have better luck just making conversation instead of asking someone to dance right away. maybe build up to it

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Anonymous #2 1d

Fuckk. Touching on men is how i avoid anxiety in the club im so screwed maybe clubbing isnt for me at least until i tackle my anxietied

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Anonymous OP 1d

Anxieties*

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Anonymous OP 1d

I shoudlnt say touching on men rather them touching on me haha 🤣

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Anonymous OP 1d

You gotta make eye contact first, then when the song works - you put in the work and if they reciprocate then you’re dancing together, after that dance take them to the bar and get to talking

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Anonymous #3 1d

Genuinely thanks for being helpful unlike other commenters under here 🤣

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Anonymous OP 1d

doesn’t mean you can’t dance w people, all i’m saying is it’d probably help if u establish that first connection. it could literally just be introducing yourself and making small talk

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Anonymous #2 1d

Oh u were helpful #1 was an asshole i shoulda just saod commenter singular haha

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Anonymous OP 1d

1. Because you implied that being conventionally attractive entitles you to an experience that really only social skills can help you acquire (big issue in gay dating as well but that’s a whole separate convo) 2. I’d recommend sparking convo and then going from there after a bit of talking

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Anonymous #1 1d

I never imploed that. I asked why i was failing. Obviously you assumed some bad intent because youre an asshole but thanks for the advice dickhead

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Anonymous #1 1d

I never actually had a conversation with someone on how to flirt and whrn i ask, ppl just say do it but im extrwmely scared of making ppl uncomfortable so flirting is hard. So i dont feel entitled to shit im just anxious

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