Anonymous #3 2w

Unfortunately, this is usually why they’re there. And I’m not referencing bi boyfriends with their bi girlfriends who are ‘straight’ (I know they’re not, but they get shit on like that, so for the emphasis of example here)… I’ve been to our local Queer club enough to see grossly cishet dudes try to hit on my lesbian roommate, even knowing she’s lesbian AND THERE WITH HER GIRLFRIEND!!

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Anonymous #5 2w

Um what if both people are bi lol

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Anonymous #7 2w

Like how can you know someone isn’t into both

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Anonymous #6 2w

Because many cishet men fetishise *anything* sapphic even if it means they are not into him in the slightest.

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Anonymous #7 2w

I think the statement “if you’re a STRAIGHT woman” pretty much eliminates BI women from the equation. This clearly isn’t talking to bi women

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Anonymous #7 2w

we need to bring reading comprehension back because how did you miss the “if you are a STRAIGHT woman.”

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Anonymous #4 2w

Sapphic refers to women whom are attracted to other women. This post was referring to str8 men going to gay clubs with gay men.

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Anonymous #13 2w

We need to start being more strict with who enters gay clubs and bars because if you're a str8 male and you're entering a gay bar or club I can't think of anything good as to why you would want to be in that environment besides wanting to cause trouble.

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Anonymous #12 2w

well nice straight allies that are friends with gays are welcome...that don't have internalized homophobia

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Anonymous #6 2w

i j want to go out w my gay friends and they feel more comfortable at gay clubs

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Anonymous #15 2w

and that’s so valid

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No no, you chose to misread a very clear sentence. They’re allowed to be mean

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Anonymous #8 2w

Okay yeah but in general there shouldn’t be too many str8 men in gay bars and clubs. Gay bars and clubs are supposed to be a space where you can walk up to any guy and flirt with them because you know they’re queer, gay or bi. I don’t wanna be at a space meant for gay and bi men and walk up to a guy and the mfer says he’s str8. That would piss me off even more because this is a gay space. You can be an ally without entering our spaces.

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Damn you don’t need to be so dumb.

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Anonymous #5 2w

How you suppose to know they gay? I’ve seen very masc gay men before

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Anonymous #12 2w

yeah i get that totally

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Anonymous #1 2w

Surprised how much karma this got lol

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Anonymous #3 2w

i’ve heard that they do it because straight women have started using gay clubs as a place to hang out. so the straight men come and whoops suddenly it’s not a safe space anymore it’s just a club

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Anonymous #9 2w

i mean the action is what matters, not the intention. no matter their sexuality, they are hitting on gay men with the hopes that they are bi

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Anonymous #6 2w

i’ve heard it’s because straight women have started going to gay bars to hang out. so straight men come to try to pick them up and whoops it’s not a safe space anymore, just a bar. said this in another comment on this thread but it bears repeating

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Anonymous grump_247 2w

i also go to be the Drunk Driver

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Anonymous #12 2w

i think you meant a space for gay and bi **people**

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Anonymous #12 2w

Bro I’m bi but I look like the straightest guy ever and if people started doing this shit I am never getting in lmao

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Anonymous grump_247 2w

Here, you dropped this 👑

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Anonymous #22 2w

That’s why u don’t assume. U ask.

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Anonymous #3 2w

This happened with a bi girl friend of mine. That night, her and I (gay man) made a deal with him (the straight guy) that he can get with her but I get to top him first. Luckily that scared him off

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