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LGBTQIA+ 4w
I have nothing of substance to say I just need to rant and this is anonymous so cc I guess
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Anonymous 4w

Not sure how to even word this it’s not even really a rant more of just a reflection on my experiences.

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Anonymous 4w

Basically when I was a tween and having yk like “the talk” with my mom I was like first of all I’m good bc I already know this stuff second of all I’m good bc I’m not interested, and she was like “you say that now but you’ll probably change your mind as you get older” and I was like mmmm idk I don’t think I will (asexual foreshadowing but I barely even knew what gay was at this point)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

And I deadass told her like I would rather my bf go find someone else to do certain stuff with than have to do it myself and she was like “so you’d want him to cheat on you” and like no girl it’s not cheating if I’m ok with it bc it’s something I don’t want to do personally. And like looking back if my mom would’ve just been a little more informed it could’ve saved me years of thinking I was some weird freak for not wanting to be in a sexual relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Also would’ve saved me many situations where I put myself at risk bc I thought it’s what I was supposed to do as a woman 😐 I’m just irritated and ik it’s not rlly my moms fault it’s the patriarchy and blah blah blah but I’m still mad

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