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I have just recently realized that I’m genderfluid but the only reason I want to be a woman is motherhood. That’s it. I don’t know how to feel abt the fact I’d rather be a man in every other aspect. Even in parenting.
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Anonymous 1w

maybe check out seahorse dad communities, r/seahorse_dads is pretty cool. not saying it’s necessarily the case, but if you deconstruct the idea that carrying your child = motherhood, maybe you won’t feel any connection to womanhood. again, you know your experience best, but learning how trans men and transmascs navigate parenthood might give you some valuable perspective.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I had no idea this existed, thank you so much!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

of course! i hope that community is helpful for you.

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