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I am not romantically or sexually attracted to trans people, but I respect their right to exist and live as they want. Does this make me transphobic?
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Anonymous 5d

why are you not sexually or romantically attracted to all trans people? What do ALL trans people have that ALL cis people dont or vice versa that makes you not attracted?

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Anonymous 2d

I got banned for saying genital preference is ok but now everyone is fine with that statement. I swear it depends what day you post something

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Anonymous 2d

No

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

For a bit of context, I’m a gay male attracted to people who are male-presenting. On the sexual side, I’m not attracted to a person with a vagina or a neopenis, they’re just not something I find attractive. On the romantic side, I’m not exactly sure. Part of me wonders if it’s a cultural bias I’ve inherited that I haven’t mentally adapted out of yet (born and raised in a red state).

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

genital preference is fine, but i think you’re right about cultural bias for the romantic part. But honestly though, the fact that you’re recognizing thats is great, and it means that even if you’re transphobic now i can see you’re willing to put in effort to not be. I personally would say yeah it could fall in the relm of transphobia but its the kind from ignorance not malice

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

You were being extremely transphobic and refusing to listen to anyone. Op opening to listening to people and admitting they may be the problem. thats the difference here. this was posted on the same day as your shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I don’t think you know what post I’m referring to. I literally had one commenter

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

This post was like 2 weeks ago. But whatever get mad before even asking. That doesn’t surprise me literally in the slightest

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