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i’m a bi man who’s not predator around women like straight guys are but i’m still attracted to women- how do i come off as being attracted without just being seen as overly friendly or gay? 🫩
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Anonymous 3w

Honestly, it’s nice to have a pin or something that shows you’re bi. Multi colored earring or keychain or anything can help. I’ve found that slightly gothic or just darker clothing with piercings tends to give off “bi man” but if that’s not your style don’t force yourself into it obviously

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 3w

Painted nails while generally presenting masculine tends to mark a man as safe without exclusively marking him gay, but it’s really just a style thing so idk if you want to do that at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 3w

The pin is probably just the best option, or maybe a sticker on your phone

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 3w

i actually do like the concept of dressing more feminine and gender non-conforming like so that might be the route. I really do hate the association with gender non-conformity as the association with not liking women in terms of being a guy. But the bi pin thing is really funny because I have a giant circular bi pin in the middle of my backpack like a marker thehehe

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

😂 then sounds like you’re all set! But yeah it does suck that there are automatic assumptions made about your sexuality based on how well you conform to gender roles

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