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LGBTQIA+ 12w
Begging some of yall to get normal about fat people
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Anonymous 12w

Nah they gotta go out of Their way to make people they think are unattractive uncomfortable. Kindness🤯? Respect😓? Or decency🫠? They can’t do that since their opinions are more important than literal people🤗

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Anonymous 12w

Sometimes “omg ughh mngg you’re so big and squishy” is just as icky as if it was insulting. I like being taken as I am but I don’t wanna be fetishized.

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Anonymous 12w

idk how people think “being normal about fat people” = being disgusted by the very idea of ever finding them attractive & broadcasting that, and somehow thinking that clarifying it’s “just a preference” makes it ok..

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Anonymous 12w

Fr I expected better

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

What

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I’m saying ppl either insult me or fetishize me being fat

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

people with fetishes for larger people treat it like a compliment for some reason. it’s like how trans-chasers will act like they’re doing trans people a service by sexualizing their transition

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

Yeah I didn’t understand how that related to my comment. I thought they meant that’s what I was saying?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

Oh yeah it’s so bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

And as soon as you shut down the fetishising, they immediately turn to insults about the very same qualities. 🫩

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Anonymous 12w

There’s a difference between having a preference for larger bodies and constantly sexualizing and objectifying fat people

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