
I wonder what the reason is. I wonder if it has anything to do with how being part of this community is optional for us. I could easily join a homophobic religion and have a normal, safe life acting straight. Not an option for everyone else. I wonder if bi people as a group tend to show up for everyone else, or if the freedom we have makes that less likely.
On the cis straight man side of it, they get called gay any time they do anything that doesn’t conform to strict male gender standards. So much policing to just not be a woman. I don’t think most of them know what it means to be a man, just how to not be a woman. Just one more sad way that patriarchy hurts everyone.