Sidechat logo
Download TikTok Instagram X
Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
LGBTQIA+ icon
🍤
LGBTQIA+ 20w

urmomzrosetoy

 Someone sos I’m in a wlw relationship and I went thru my girlfriends tiktok favorites and she has MANY videos of shirtless guys flexing and stuff. The comments that she liked got worse. I really need help what do I do.
comment

15
upvote 8 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 20w

i think the underlying trust issue that caused you to go thru her tiktok favorites is probably the bigger problem

upvote 15 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 20w

You need to have a conversation one asking her what it’s about and then two setting boundaries around like and saving stuff like that and be firm about it

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 20w

maybe she’s bi?

upvote 0 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

Yeah but it’s still kinda weird to save that stuff in a relationship

upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

it’s not that weird dawg

upvote 9 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #4 20w

Why isn’t it weird? Like I’m curious why you think that like actually

upvote -2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

some people just have different boundaries, like someone may be a monogamous relationship but don't feel any sort of way about their partner watching porn or liking thirst traps. not everyone's the same, it just depends on personal boundaries.

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #5 20w

Yeah no I understand that but in this situation wouldn’t it be weird because op sounds very uncomfortable with it?

upvote 0 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

yeah you're right in this situation it's definitely weird! sorry I assumed you were talking generally lol

upvote 1 downvote
🍤
Anonymous replying to -> #3 20w

I looked over at her phone and she was watching guys flexing and I saw her favorite it rly fast so later I went to go check it out bc it seemed she was hiding something and I found way more I didn’t just randomly go into her favorites

upvote 0 downvote
🍤
Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

Yeah for sure thank you

upvote 0 downvote
🍤
Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

She is bi but it’s just weird since we are in a 2 yr relationship and I’m her first girlfriend

upvote 1 downvote
🍤
Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

Yeah it is honestly even if it’s for shits and gigs but she was liking comments saying like “I need that” “this is the best video ever” you know

upvote 1 downvote
🍤
Anonymous replying to -> #5 20w

Yeah that’s a great explanation thank you

upvote 1 downvote
🍤
Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

I am veryyyyyy uncomfortable with it and update I had a convo with her and basically she said she doesn’t know why she saved it which I said was bull

upvote 5 downvote