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i really am lonely. i have no friends other than my roomate. romantically i don’t speak even get to know anyone bc yk im lesbian so it’s almost impossible. i just want some friends and to get to know people on a different level. where do i begin? (IL) btw
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Anonymous 1w

I’m a big proponent of getting a hobby that necessitates regular in-person connection! Dance and theater are good ones (I’d particularly recommend folk dance styles bc they tend to have a lot of queer people). Otherwise, join groups for a hobby. A knitting circle or a writing workshop or something that meets consistently, and actually make yourself go consistently. You’re going to have to put yourself in uncomfortable situations until they become comfortable

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Anonymous 1w

how are you

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Anonymous 1w

if you have a hobby, see if there are other people in the area that do it! if not, try something new if you want friends or ideas, my DMs are open :)

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Anonymous 1w

i have a small company, i just launched my first product, are you good with ads?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i’m present honestly, how are you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i'm okay

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Anonymous replying to -> mediocrates 1w

i do i am a web and full stack developer i need space to set up my servers

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

and i thought my music major ass needed to touch grass ☠️

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Anonymous replying to -> mediocrates 1w

music? what do you play? study?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i play low brass as a general music major, hoping to go into media design and production

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