
tbh they didnt assume anything, you said they asked outright. they could have just assumed you were into it and started with actual sexting. theyre in the right to ask first thats how consent works. maybe stop being judgmental when people asks about your tastes and try to gain consent 🙃
if I had to guess I'm assuming op just brought up they were kinky casually, not in anyway asking for solicitation someone sliding into their DMs, regardless of their kinks, is a rude thing for them to do it's like the men who message you the instant they find out you're a girl. like where did I ask for that