LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | I’m a trans man with no intention of ever getting bottom surgery. I’m not asexual. I like dick. I’ve never been interested in topping. But I feel dysphoric using the front and I’m not comfortable using the back. I fear I’m in a pickle

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LGBTQIA+ 1d

I’m a trans man with no intention of ever getting bottom surgery. I’m not asexual. I like dick. I’ve never been interested in topping. But I feel dysphoric using the front and I’m not comfortable using the back. I fear I’m in a pickle

Anonymous 1d

genuinely don't know what to say to you expect that you should take solace in knowing this probably applies to the majority of trans men so you aren't alone

Anonymous 1d

i’ve heard trans guys refer to themselves as bonus hole boys and it’s just like… another hole for gay guys and that kinda helps with dysphoria

Anonymous 1d

it's of course your right to do with your body exactly as you please, but with all due respect, wouldn't the using the back be a pretty similar experience regardless? or is your discomfort there related to your transness as well?

Anonymous

#3 1d

**the process of using the back not sure where my other words went

Anonymous

#3 1d

It feels entirely different. It’s a totally different sensation. And I don’t like how the back feels. I like how the front feels. I can masturbate. But the thought of a man I’m with seeing me with that, let alone using it, just fills me with dread. I’m a man. I don’t want to be seen as female

Anonymous

#3 1d

I am female, I always will be female. But I don’t want to be seen that way. I don’t want to be a ‘trans man,’ I just want to be seen and treated as a man. And that just can’t happen sexually for me

Anonymous

OP 1d

I know these words will probably ring hollow when you’re in a rough spot like this, but there are plenty of men who would simultaneously be willing to have penetrative sex like this and still view you and treat you 100% like a man