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LGBTQIA+ 14h
My gf SAd me and i think i have stockholm syndrome and i so desperately want to be with another woman just to tell her "no" and feel validated when she listens. I want to cheat only to deny sex bc then ill feel like i can be respected by other lesbians
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Anonymous 14h

*ex gf. Get out of there YESTERDAY

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Anonymous 14h

I was never raped by men. Only women. I dont think i was meant to be with women and if i was then i dont want to be if this is what i deserve from them

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Anonymous 8h

girl please block that hoe and find a queer therapist asap

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Anonymous 14h

On pride month is crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

I tried and then we cried to each other and ended up deciding to stay together and i feel like i dug myself into a deeper hole and can't leave now 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

there is no hole there, girl. someone does that to you and you can get tf out at any point. you are not in the wromg

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

You NEED to leave. She is literally ACTIVELY A DANGER TO YOU. She is manipulating you into staying because she doesn’t want to go through the hassle of finding another victim. If you live together, get your stuff and go to a trusted friend or family member when she’s sleeping. If you don’t, change your locks and start getting ready to move.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

This happened to me with my abusive ex gf. You have to get out it will only get worse. It will hurt and it will hurt bad because kf the grip she has on you now but you cannot begin to heal until you leave. Id you wanna talk ab it u can dm me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1h

it’s not hun and you will heal from this but you have to get out of this situation first and take time to yourself to heal. it’s going to be ok, I promise

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