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LGBTQIA+ 21h
so how do i tell my bf of nearly 3 years that i do really love and care about that i don't think i'm sexually attracted to men at all 😍
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Anonymous 21h

if he's a good guy, he'll understand that you coming to terms with your sexuality is not a personal decision about him

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Anonymous 18h

it’s gonna hurt his feelings, but you gotta come clean. if you stay, you’re robbing him of time that he could be spending working on himself or pursuing someone that’s able to love him in the same way. i’m sorry you’re going through this dear🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

i know i'm just really worried about hurting him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

ngl he's probably gonna be hurt, but not telling him now is definitely worse cause you have to tell him at some point and doing it sooner rather than later is probably gonna be better cause the longer you wait the more it's gonna hurt him...

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

i havent been having sex w him and for a while i didn't know why and i told him and he basically said he'd wait as long as i wanted because he doesn't want anyone else 😬 im scared

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

but even waiting it out probably won't change it and he needs to respect that!

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