bae be so fr. i don’t need validation from someone else (unlike you), i have confidence and know my worth so i don’t have to seek validation and approval of people who only like and use you for your looks or body. if anything you should snap back to reality and realize that the way you’re acting is childish and sad, it’s screaming “PICK ME!! CHOOSE ME!! I DONT HAVE ANY CONFIDENCE AND NEED TO GET EXTERNAL VALIDATION TO BE HAPPY IN LIFE!! IM SKINNY PLEASE LOVE ME!!”.
It’s not about that, it’s like I’ve lost over 80 lbs now I’m like I guess in a healthy weight. Being fat doesn’t make anyone love themselves. Don’t you think dating someone overweight and unhealthy is a turn off. It lacks discipline and tbh it’s just unattractive to me. I’m just saying the gay community is really harsh if you want to get people you’re actually attracted to maybe one should lose weight and then maybe their potential suitors may be more appealing
ok YOU lost it because YOU wanted to. this kind of behavior is why ed’s are so normalized today. you said “overweight and unhealthy”, that’s not the same as saying fat. fat is a subjective term just like beauty. its like how i find you ugly because of the way you’re acting but you think that you’re attractive because you’re “skinny”. not everyone is the same and trying to fit everyone into your standards just makes people less special and unique. also i say bae.
also blaming your behavior on “the gay community” is not ok because you don’t speak for all of us and you only know an ounce of the people in this community. if anything “the gay community” should be supporting everyone embracing their true self’s instead of forcing them into society’s expectations.