every now and then i’ll approach my friend like “do you wanna do something?” and he’ll say “we’re not having sex”… like no shit dude, you’re gay and i’m a woman (asexual too) 😭
anyways, it just confuses me bc i obviously am not going to??
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Anonymous19h
Is it a joke?
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Anonymous#117h
no, he’s completely serious when he says it
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Anonymous#117h
like trust, i’d understand if it was a joke, but he genuinely believed that’s what i was going to ask him for some reason
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AnonymousOP17h
Well I guess in that case maybe he thought you were coming on to him and that you are one of the people who are asexual and still seeks out sex
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Anonymous#117h
he also knows my opinion on sex. idk, it’s just strange imo, plus he’s gay so i don’t know why he’d think im even coming on to him in the first place
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AnonymousOP17h
Maybe he thought your opinion changed idk. The only three things I can think of are it was a joke, you did something that he interpreted as you coming on to him, or maybe he’s attracted to you and was trying to come on to you