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How to get over ex-gf (white) who told me to my face they can’t pull anyone like me because they don’t deserve anyone like me? And then actively brought home (in shared apartment) another white man (i’m a woc) after banging 4 other wm during our relsss???
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Anonymous 4w

u were dating a movie villain 😭

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Anonymous 4w

wait, my bad im autistic so im asking to make sure i understand. Are they saying they can’t pull anyone like you bc they dont deserve someone like you bc you’re a woc? Did i get that right??

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Pleaseee I knowww. Her best friend also lived with us and they’re both white. I will say they’re both slow. Like they couldn’t process things properly, assumed ONLY they were right. I just found out recently she could only date white men because they’re the only ones who would give her the time of day. I literally wasted years but I’m so happy now. Now I just need to learn to stop hating her for wasting my time…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

So what I’ve gathered after dating them is that I sacrificed a LOT and dealt with a LOT of their crap as I am also autistic and could not process how evil they were to me. Now that they are showing me only people who can be more evil than them will get with them, I have much hatred for them and disgust but for some reason can’t just push it aside and be happy elsewhere. They also genuinely haven’t gotten with anyone who isn’t a white cis het man. Which A+, it’s just as a woc…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Oooh okay! Yeah that’s crazy work If its still fresh, its okay to still wallow in it for a bit. Emotions are hard, but i hope you find that time when you will be happy again💕

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Thank you!!

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