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LGBTQIA+ 3d
Ok how do I get over my first real, deep same sex crush. I feel like life has no meaning if I can’t be with her and I need it to stop please 😭 I’ve had crushes but what the hell is this
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Anonymous 3d

Time, sadly. The only thing that could ever speed that process up is resenting them forever (from personal experience) You’ll heal eventually <3

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Anonymous 2d

Shoot your shot. Only way to get over a crush

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Anonymous 1d

try to distance yourself without hurting her or tell her, you won’t get anywhere if you don’t move. in the meanwhile get a hobby, find a new interest or anything that gets you thinking about things other than her. idk if this is good advice but these are things that have helped me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Tbh it’s been since I was a younger teen of me questioning my sexuality and then this person was the “yeah.. this is all especially not very straight of me” person. And that was years ago atp and I just went from thinking she was really cool to this and it’s only getting worse and worse istg..

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Well the meeting her was years ago at least but the realization and acceptance and everything wasn’t

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