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LGBTQIA+ 2w
genderfluidity sucks bc I feel like there’s no stable state of myself. Idk whether to buy masc or clothes, I can’t choose a workout bc I don’t know what I want my body to look like, I haven’t gotten my hair cut in months bc I can’t decide what style
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Anonymous 2w

it’s the label I feel most comfortable with, but the reality is really frustrating bc I feel like I can’t become the person I want to be because that person changes every day

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Anonymous 2w

and I haven’t found pronouns that feel right, I just stick with they/them but I don’t actually like it very much, but going by he/him would be ridiculous and going by she/her feels wrong most of the time

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Anonymous 2w

Felt so hard. I desperately need top surgery but I have to choose between getting all the mass removed and keeping a little.

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Anonymous 2w

i am asking this oh so genuinely but: do you struggle with presentation because you don’t know what you feel comfortable in, or because you don’t know how you want to present to other people?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

both?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

i get that, i was just asking because i feel some people are uncomfortable in their “atypical” gender expression get that from societal expectation, and as hard as it is i think it’s oh so important to stray from that and lean into whatever makes you feel comfortable in you

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