heavy.metal on Sidechat | Sometimes I feel like people invalidate my identity as a gay man because I’m with a trans man, but then they’ll also claim that they totally believe trans men are men. So which is it? Why do you think I have to be bi to date who you also think is a man?

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LGBTQIA+ 6w

heavy.metal

Sometimes I feel like people invalidate my identity as a gay man because I’m with a trans man, but then they’ll also claim that they totally believe trans men are men. So which is it? Why do you think I have to be bi to date who you also think is a man?

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Anonymous 6w

No you are completely valid, and gay. Very very gay. Good for you!

Anonymous 5w

I get it as a cis lesbian dating a trans woman

Anonymous 5w

I believe it be conflict between people seeing attraction as to the parts and not the energy of the person. Bug differences between being attracted to masculine and being attracted to dick

Anonymous

#1 5w

The most gay in fact.

Anonymous

#2 5w

I’m not attracted to “being masculine.” I’m attracted to men.

Anonymous

heavy.metal 5w

But if you’re with a trans man then it’s a masculine attraction. Your still gay, not trying to say your not but there’s a difference

Anonymous

#2 5w

I’m with a man. Meaning I’m attracted to men. There is no difference.

Anonymous

heavy.metal 5w

You are attracted to masculine and dating a man

Anonymous

#2 5w

Who are you to tell me what I am attracted to? I’m attracted to men. I would be attracted to a masculine or feminine man. I would not be attracted to a masculine woman.

Anonymous

heavy.metal 5w

I’m trying to make the distinction between physical attraction, sexual attraction, and romantic attraction. Which you seem unable to do so