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hi i'm a lesbian and i want to know if this is normal or not? every time i meet a man that i enjoy being around i think about how if i was straight i would go for them and then i get really upset..i have a girlfriend that i love a lot but comphet kills me
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Anonymous 9w

maybe it’s like u just have to break down the walls of gender segregation in ur head and realize youre allowed to be friends with men. Like rewrite the neural association that says when a man and a woman are close they must be dating. maybe u will find some great friends that way!!

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Anonymous 9w

it might not be "normal" but it happens and doesn't make you less of a lesbian

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

that makes a lot of sense actually..thank you!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

thank you 🫶

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