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LGBTQIA+ 15h
How do women who are attracted to straight men deal with it?? Like I’m a gay man and I literally hate straight men. Everything they do just kind of irritates me to some degree. I could write a whole fucking thesis on this.
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Anonymous 14h

Unfortunately attracted to our only natural predators…

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Anonymous 14h

im a lesbian and im also wondering this

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Anonymous 11h

before i found out i was trans and presented as a female, it was super frusterating. it was like every interaction had to be dissected to figure out if they'd be safe or not. it made it way harder to be attracted to them tbh, especially when there was a gut feeling of smth wrong but you didn't know what. it's so mentally taxing tbh

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Anonymous 11h

my attraction is thankfully more based on vibes than physical appearance. usually i just don’t vibe with straight men 😭 my happiest relationship ever which i’m still in now is bi4bi and tbh if we were to break up, i don’t think i could ever go back to a straight man

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10h

Im a cis bi guy and even I feel this way, I feel like I have to "vet" men cause im autistic and I dont get along with assholes

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