as far as i know you can only start a chat with people who either make a post or comment on a post, when someone comments on a post you just click on the three little dots in the up right corner of the comment and then click on "star chat" and when you want to start a chat with someone who is the OP of a post you just have to click on the little arrow under the post on the left

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but you don't always have the option to start a chat with someone cause some people turn their dms off so you can't start a chat with them...

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If you’re talking about a DM #1 is correct, you can only start it from a comment or post. If you click on those three lil dots next to a comment you can DM, and on posts it’s the little paper airplane/triangle button.

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Thanks any femboy out there wanna join? https://app.sidechat.lol/c/cNj5AaJK

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