LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | The way some of yall let it slip that you see enbys as woman-lite the SECOND you can “anyone who identifies as a woman” but also “women or nb people..”

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The way some of yall let it slip that you see enbys as woman-lite the SECOND you can “anyone who identifies as a woman” but also “women or nb people..”

75 upvotes, 13 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in LGBTQIA+. "The way some of yall let it slip that you see enbys as woman-lite the SECOND you can “anyone who identifies as a woman” but also “women or nb people..”"

Anonymous 2w

It’s weird how there seems to be this category of “men” and “non-men” to these people. It’s unironically…kinda TERF-y to me? Something about how AMAB people are somehow incredibly distinct from AFABs and any AFAB is a woman or at least woman-lite. I am tired as shit but does this make sense

Anonymous 2w

I just know this person would be pissed off if they saw a more masc presenting nonbinary lesbian too

Anonymous 1w

knew someone who hated all men but said trans men were the exception… just say you don’t see them as real men

Anonymous

#1 2w

No literally

Anonymous

#2 2w

Oh absolutely it makes a lot of sense but also apparently that person is just a terf

Anonymous

OP 2w

genuinely asking OP: isn’t “gold star lesbian” a harmful term?? why should we be supporting a lesbian who uses such terms especially when they themselves are identifying as lesbian and trans. i’m all for he/him lesbians and i understand lesbian can be a comfortable identity for some trans men but shouldn’t we avoid “gold star” as a community?

Anonymous

#3 2w

The person posting, oil London, is a known liar. I haven’t seen the op post, but I’m assuming either she didn’t say that at all, or she’s doing satire. What’s more important is that #1 is agreeing with transphobes

Anonymous

#3 2w

maybe i’m confused on the phrasing or who’s saying what, but i don’t understand how this is terf-y if the op is trans themself?

Anonymous

#3 2w

Op of what.

Anonymous

#3 2w

The TikTok video is a trans woman doing satire. Oli London reposts it saying said woman is a man invading lesbian spaces. I screenshot that and post it here because it sounds a lot like the things #1 was saying. #1 agrees with transphobe oli london (the guy who transitioned to a Korean from white and then detransed and became transphobic.) I’m posting it here stating that because #1 is agreeing with a transphobe saying men (trans women) shouldn’t be in women’s spaces (lesbian bar) 1 is a terf

Anonymous

OP 2w

#1 said this and caused me to think about how much it sounded like a terfy thing to say

Anonymous

OP 2w

ohhh!! i didn’t know it was a trans woman in the photo, i thought the caption saying it was a man was true, plus i didn’t know who olí london was! without context it’s hard to tell that oli(again, if u don’t know who they are like i didn’t) was insulting and invalidating a trans woman

Anonymous

#3 2w

Yeah sorry it is confusing, I was just trying to point out that the stuff #1 said about “men invading women’s spaces” sounds identical to terfs when they misgender trans women, but then #1 started defending terfs in a way and then said they agree with trump so no point in arguing with them anymore