Like once I was telling a story about a guy I was talking to on Grindr and he was like freaked out and called it crazy that I use Grindr. When he literally has hooked up with women on Yikyak. It’s just stuff like that all the time

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Holy internalized homophobia on his part. Have you tried mentioning this to any mutual friends? I’d be surprised if none of them have noticed/intervened yet. It definitely shouldn’t be laughed off now; it could escalate into more direct digs at you or worse.

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Honestly i think its ok to bring up to the friends you trust how uncomfortable this makes you. There was somebody who got introduced to a friend group I’m in who had similar bad vibes (sexist), and i put up with it bc i didn’t want to rock the boat and i didn’t think anything was bad enough, but later it turned out almost everybody else had a problem with him too and we stopped hanging out with him and the vibe immediately got better again

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