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LGBTQIA+ 2w
I get that this is a thing sometimes (even though I’ve never seen it on this app or irl), but you can’t just generalize an entire group like this, there are some trans women that are toxic to trans men but you don’t see them generalizing all trans women
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LGBTQIA+ 2w
I know that trans men are men because it’s literally a stereotype that they’re toxic as fuck to trans women and yet they constantly complain that trans women don’t like them
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Anonymous 2w

in the real life trans spaces and just real life i hardly see this. its more of an online issue mostly, and saying many of them do it is fair, but definitely not most

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Anonymous 2w

im not op, im just a person who thinks that the majority of this argument is caused by people being chronically online and not interacting with people irl in social environments

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Anonymous 2w

It’s just more chronically online people finding more stuff to complain about

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Anonymous 2w

im saying what i said as a trans women btw

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Anonymous 2w

Online is where the majority of this shit comes from. same thing with transphobic trans fems and trans meds. if you hate yourself you’re gonna to try to tear down others and they’re a very vocal minority about it.

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Anonymous 2w

Also you yourself just admitted in your post that this is a STEREOTYPE, which shows that you have a biased beliefs against trans men.

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Anonymous 2w

#1 your life experiences are valid, but that doesn’t give you an excuse to stereotype a who group of people, especially a group of people who for the most part don’t act in that way

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Anonymous 2w

Knew there’d be one of you crybabies

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Literally doing a “not all men” moment talking over women, but it’s fine because you’re trans /s

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

come on lol if you made a generalization this broad about any group it would be bad.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I’m not mad or anything you’re allowed to think what you want to think but I’m allowed to tell you you’re insane for generalizing an entire group.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

It’s a generalization based on a phenomenon that happens literally all the time. You’re not woke for talking over me you’re just a misogynist lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

This does not happen “all the time” lmao please be so fr. And even if it did do you really believe that all trans men are like this? Because if so then I can’t help you.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

This conversation would be identical to some redpill shit if we just took the word “trans” out of it. Do you fucking hear yourself

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Anonymous 2w

Lmfao

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Anonymous 2w

Right because recognizing that a lot of trans men use misogyny as a way of affirming themselves and being racist are totally the same fucking thing. Go fuck yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

You are the one generalizing an entire group of people. Even if we took the word trans out it wouldn’t change the fact that generalizing is wrong.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You’re the one denying a common experience for many trans women and basically showing that you don’t care about women

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You would rather play semantics than talk about a genuine issue in your community

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Oops sorry. Didn’t know that you spoke for all trans women 🫩 also this happens but all the time? Seriously? Also genuinely asking: is this something that you experience a lot,

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w
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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

the conversation is about trans people. you can't just say "this would be bigoted if it were an entirely different conversation" and pretend that means the current conversation is bigoted. gender oppression/privilege dynamics between trans men and trans women are not the same as those between cis men and cis women.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

They are when trans men literally recreate those dynamics within their relationships

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Didn’t realize you were able to just deny the experiences of other people because I hurt your little feelings

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Ohhhhhhh ok, I don’t spend a lot of time online so I can’t speak to that. That being said anyone including toxic people can get online so this makes sense,

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

…..you didn’t answer the question, are these YOUR experiences?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

In a time when queer people are being targeted harder than usual, it’s easier for some people to throw other groups under the bus to feel more secure in their identity I suppose

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Wait are you OP? Because if you’re op then who’s the other person arguing with me, 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Ok, you still had a valid take on this topic, 👍🏾

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

trans men, with the exception of the very very small minority who are completely stealth, do not have the structural or social power to recreate the same dynamics that exist between cis men and women.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Some people that have replied/dm’d me have said that this happens sometimes on online spaces so I do think this is a (mostly) online thing, it’s still an issue though to me, online or in real life,

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