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How do you get poly people to stop liking you on dating apps? I have monogamous 4 times on my profile. When I look at who likes me it will be primarily couples or poly and partnered ppl. I have been told not giving them a chance is hateful. Is it?
some of y'all are a little too lonely and miserable to be thinking about how much you hate polyamorous people as often as y'all do 👀
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Anonymous 1w

i’m talking about the people that think being poly is disgusting and inherently abusive or whatever, not dating them is completely fine. idk whose telling you that you need to be date poly people to be woke or something but they are stupid 😬

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Anonymous 1w

I also have no couples in my bio. I don’t hate poly ppl, I hate that my boundaries aren’t being respected so how do I get poly ppl to respect my boundaries?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Okay thanks. I have been told saying, “no thank you, I’m monogamous” is rude and not being open. What should I be saying so my boundaries will be respected?

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