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LGBTQIA+ 1w
Coming to terms with the fact that I might be bi in a comphet way but also that I don't care. My sexuality doesn't even crack top 5 for priorities in this life, and if marrying a man makes it easier to get the things that actually matter then oh well
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Anonymous 1w

Remember your happiness is also something that actually matters - I'm not saying you need to dive deep into labeling your sexuality, but I am saying make sure you're happy with whoever you marry

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Sure but my point is I don't buy into the love is all you need thing and I would absolutely not be happy living a life I hate just because it's with someone I'm in love with. Obviously if I could have it all I would want it all, but my outlook on life doesn't even particularly consider much about a partner beyond one that treats me well and loves me and is a suitable partner for the lifestyle I want for myself and my future kids.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

And that could be anyone hence the bi thing.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yeah that’s fair, I do think your happiness with whoever you marry should also factor in like, the kind of lives you're setting yourself up to have. I think it’s totally reasonable to prioritize that stuff first

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