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this place is miserable, are there any other queer places on this app? i'm part of the trans and trans sex and gay sex subs, but i want some other queer community on here that isn't a bunch of losers arguing over what a lesbian is.
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Anonymous 18h

Gay bars, creative/poet meetups (at least for me), furry spaces (trust), places where there’s more millennials & older queers than zoomers

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Anonymous 19h

I just use the identity-exclusive communities like the aro/ace space (which is awesome but very inactive), and the alt communities here are great when not overrun by cishet men & people catering to the male gaze ;-;

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

pretty much every community with potential is either too small or sucks for other reasons. atp I just block people if I don’t want to see their discourse, and it’s worked pretty well

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

dude i've blocked so many people, and my page has been normal for a few weeks, then the most recent run of bullshit started and i lowkey think this place will never be free of it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

this community is just Execution Clap/French Revolution Reign of Terror 😭 people have no context on anyone else’s beliefs, and will immediately misinterpret ANYTHING to cast the first stone & look good so that the stone isnt cast at them.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

I’ve stopped engaging with any discussion here unless it’s just a celebration of queer identity since even I, myself, have fallen into that mindset. it’s so exhausting and I’d rather just read articles on queer theory instead of watching people snarkily argue about the same topics for literal years.

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