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LGBTQIA+ 6w
I don't get why people have started defining lesbianism in terms of trans women instead of defining it terms of women in general and leaving space for exceptions to the rule. There aren't even that many trans lesbians for penises to be coming up so often
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Anonymous 6w

And I don't mean this in like a terf way like I have dated a trans woman but even dating a trans woman but she was a woman on hormones lmao we were not having p in v sex for so many people to be like "lesbians like dick when it comes from a girl" like what is going on

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Anonymous 6w

Im not sure what you mean defining lesbianism in terms of trans women

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Yeah i agree with you, some people overly fetishize trans women based on their genitalia and don’t consider how hormones or their trans experience might make penetrating dysphoria inducing/not their fave and just generally painting all trans women with a broad brush, like can we please treat trans women like people

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Ahhh yeah i c i c ppl trying to sound woke by being like yeah lesbians love trans women by reducing them to dick. All my transbian friends have had issues with ppl only seeing them for their dicks when they themselves have crazy bottom dysphoria

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

plenty of lesbians who are or aren’t dating trans woman do have penetrative sex with their partners and enjoy it but yeah i agree it’s just kind of a gross way to put it. it’s really reductive. I think the most good faith way to interpret that tho is that like genitalia doesn’t matter, lesbians like other women regardless of if they’re trans and have all kinds of different sex that’s really not anyone else’s business. should just say that tho tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

This post isn't about penetrative sex

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