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guys i think i am a lesbian i am not really attracted to my boyfriend lowkey 💔 please give me kind advice
72 upvotes, 7 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in LGBTQIA+. "guys i think i am a lesbian i am not really attracted to my boyfriend lowkey 💔 please give me kind advice"
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Anonymous 1w

talk to your bf about it. have a heart to heart with him

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Anonymous 1w

First step is realizing it, you got this girl 💪

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Anonymous 1w

Everyone here is right: talking with your boyfriend. Sitting down and realizing what you want is the first step, if he’s a deccent guy he may not like the outcome but if he’s a good guy he will not hold it against you, you can’t help who you love, its not a choice. Also if he’s makes you “prove it” walk away, immediately. That is a headache that is not worth in the slightest! Get in the local area, talk to likeminded people, it may be lonely at first without him OR you will click with someone

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Anonymous 1w

if he's a decent guy he really should understand

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i plan to after this semester, he’s a senior and i’m a freshman so breaking it off should be easy then 🥀 it’s a lot harder since we’re on the same campus and have the same friend groups

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I would speak with him. Be honest about your feelings. It’s okay, you are okay to feel this.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

don’t beat yourself down because of who your attracted to, you got this!

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