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I’m 19 and have never dated anyone at what point do I give up hope? I don’t even know how to talk to anyone I’ve never even held hands with someone. Growing up as a trans man in a maga town didn’t help but now idk what to do
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Anonymous 3w

not to discount the difficulties of being trans in a red area, but 19 is like....... so young

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Anonymous 3w

There’s plenty of people who don’t realize they’re queer until their 70s. Not having dated at 19 is nbd! You’ve got plenty of time 🫶 Build connections and romance will come later. If you’re only interacting with people in search of a potential partner then you’re going to end up feeling a lot lonelier. I’m biased since I’m aroace but there’s plenty of room for relationships and closeness outside of dating.

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Anonymous 3w

you’re only 19 you’re way too young to give up

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Anonymous 3w

i believed this and then got in my first relationship at 20

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Anonymous 2w

I didn’t have my first kiss till I was 21. 19 is very young, you’ll be fine.

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