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Fuck off with this shit. This is harmful asf and is 🍇 CULTURE. I AM A LESBIAN AND ALWAYS WILL BE.
375 upvotes, 83 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in LGBTQIA+. "Fuck off with this shit. This is harmful asf and is 🍇 CULTURE. I AM A LESBIAN AND ALWAYS WILL BE."
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Anonymous 2w

bi people when they learn not every sexuality is fluid 🤯 (i’m bi & tired of this mentality)

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Anonymous 2w

That seems like rage bait

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Anonymous 2w

I like being a gay man, not bi man

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Anonymous 1w

She's definitely straight and ragebaiting because wtaf

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Anonymous 1w

Getting called crazy for defending my sexuality >> like yes i am crazy i am a crazy mean bitch lesbian and i will never like a man in my life

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Anonymous 1w

im not asexual, but it should be obvious how acephobic this is too

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Anonymous 1w

Yeah this is how we end up killed or SA’d, i dont fw anyone who excuses this, same with that d*ke breaking subreddit (some) people in the community were itching to defend a few years back

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Anonymous 1w

#7 is so gross 🤢

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Anonymous 1w

How is this r culture?

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Anonymous 1w

how is it 🍇 culture?

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Anonymous 1w

I think stating that “everyone is bi” is harmful but I do also think that sexuality is incredibly fluid and everyone experiences it differently. Odds are every straight man out there has at least one man they’d go for, that kinda thing. Blanket statements are never good but that doesn’t mean you have to be strictly one side of this debate or the other

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

At least I’m hoping and praying it is 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Ive seen alot of this rhetoric recently: like its “woke” homophobia bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

This is like when lesbians tell bi people that bisexuality doesn’t exist 😭 why we always gotta have “hot takes” that are just wrong let people live

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

How tf does a hot take interfere with your ability to live. Just scroll no-one’s forcing you to be bi.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Its dangerous to lesbians. If you cant see how this take is literal rape culture and homophobia, i cant help you. Grow tf up and kiss my lilly white ass. It promotes the idea lesbians and gay men for that matter CHOOSE to be this way.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Probably so: trying to sow division amongst our communities most likely

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Same! I love being a L E S B I A N not a bi woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

have you never herd the term corrective rape before? Because yes, lesbians get forced to have sex with men.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

And this logic is so buns: “how does homophobia impact your ability to live?” Is exactly what this person said 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

it not too late to delete this stupid ass comment

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

They wont lol. They dont respect lesbians and think we are genuinely choosing to be this way. And they dont understand that this type of rhetoric leads to violence against us.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

I’d really appreciate if instead of just downvoting people could have a conversation 🙂 I’m not trying to be hostile

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

Sexuality CAN be fluid. Thats the difference. Not everyone is bi. Spectrums have an END. I am a lesbian and will NEVER like a man and to even insinuate im being unreasonable because i am pissed off my sexuality is being questioned in the name of wokeness is insulting and frankly homophobic.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

See the problem is is that we’re putting too many labels on things. You are a lesbian! You aren’t bi, and you never will be. And that is super valid, I don’t think anyone is tryin to disregard that What people are saying is that unless you’ve met everyone in the world, you can’t rule out that .00001% chance you MIGHT find someone of another gender attractive Because sexuality is fluid anything could happen, but that shouldn’t invalidate your experience in the label you feel comfortable with

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

crazy how you got one downvote and started complaining about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

It’s all up to personal interpretation at the end of the day, and no one can tell you what you are or aren’t. I disagree with the idea that “everyone is bi” because it forces labels that people don’t want, but people should still be open to the idea that sexuality is fluid And I say this as a gay man. I don’t ever see myself loving a woman, but if I’m proven wrong then so be it. I’ll still be gay, it’s just a one off thing 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

I’m not complaining I just want to have a conversation in the space for conversations. I don’t appreciate when people can’t communicate like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

See there you go again: “anything could happen!” No. Why is it always believe women until we say we will never be interested in a man and will always be a lesbian? Fuck you and your lesbophobic “woke” bullshit. Who tf are you to say “I may not know?”. Sexuality CAN be fluid but it isn’t for homosexuals. Thats kinda the point of homosexuality. We are HOMOsexuals.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

dawg its a feature of the app. if you don’t like it dont make comments

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Dear god you’re just crazy I’m sorry I ever tried to have a conversation with you under what you chose to put online

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

The idea that we can be changed and we are choosing to not date men and that all it takes is one man to change us. Thats rape culture.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

whats crazy is trying to tell lesbians that “they might be attracted to men someday” while ignoring the harm that mindset does to lesbians

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

yeah still don’t get it. they aren’t saying 🍇 has to happen in order for you to “change”. saying it takes “one man to change” isn’t 🍇 culture. they didn’t say anything about sexual violence or abuse.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

That is literally rape culture. It is apart of the idea that everyone is one sexuality and that we just aren’t choosing to accept that, which leads to coercive rape. Which i am a victim of. So just because you don’t understand, doesn’t mean its wrong.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Don’t forget about the fetish alot of men have about “dy*e breaking”.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

it’s your interpretation of the blanket statement. saying it takes one man to change or everyone is a little bit bi isn’t being 🍇culture. i think you’re reading into it a LOT and if it’s 🍇 culture to you that’s your interpretation of it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

where is each of the highlighted items included in “everyone’s a little bi”. that’s not sexist, groping, coercion/manipulation OR victim blaming

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

That LEADS to those attitudes. Dont speak on topics you don’t understand if you plan on speaking over victims of it 🤷‍♀️. Not everyone is a little bi.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

it’s a stupid statement. i’m not defending it. but saying that “everyone is a little bi” is rape culture is funny

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

you’re funny, i am a victim of it. still valid in saying you’re reading into it too much

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Its funny that i was raped by a woman who had dy*e breaking fetishes and her bf? A woman who had the same sentiment that “everyone is a little bi” and told me lesbians were just prudes who didn’t know they liked men yet? Okay dude. If its so funny to you, i wont be engaging anymore.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

yeah all you have to do is not respond. it’s that easy. enjoy your day funny man

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

never said 🍇 was funny you’re just reading too much into your own feelings 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

If you say so, you’re a bad person. 🫶 the two are connected and not being able to see how saying everyone is bi can lead to attempts to coerce and manipulate is a bit telling on your part. Have a great day lesbophobe 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

😙

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Are you jealous of lesbians or something? Why does us talking about our problems make you so upset?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

you’re really pressed about this. go take your meds

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

thought you were dropping the convo? can’t stay away baby?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

why do you keep engaging with me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

sounds like YOU are the one upset

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

it’s also funny that you can’t see i’m clearly doing this to make you upset on purpose

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

OP has the right to be pressed. This is the exact rhetoric that’s used to defend sexual violence and rape of lesbians.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

You just responded to me 4 times in 20 seconds, who’s the pressed one here?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

you’re so emotional over this wow

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

you’re on yikyak. get used to it or get off

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Seeing them jump straight to calling you “crazy” for explaining the very real link between this rhetoric and corrective rape is giving “women are hysterical” in a different font

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Emotional over you? Perish the thought chud (you still seem like a spurned ex, double, triple, hell even quadruple replying btw)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

never used the term “crazy”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

you’re emotional over this whole conversation dude chill

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Others did. You just called her “emotional” though which is coincidentally the exact same thing they said about the “hysterical” women who were just speaking up for themselves

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Oh, forgot that its wrong to be concerned over being told your identity being disrespected lol. Bet youre a straight person sowing discourse lowkey

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

as someone bi, not every sexuality is fluid & yall need to stop pushing the narrative that they are. it’s not a blanket statement, it’s literally just the truth. we’re not sims babe, some women are attracted to only women & some men are attracted to only men. there’s a difference between finding someone good looking (which you can regardless of sexuality) & truly being attracted to them.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i’m literally saying these things to press your buttons LMAO. you guys are hilarious and need to move on

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Ragebait is the easiest way to get out of accountability for things you actually believe 🤷‍♀️ have a good day chud

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

You need to grow up 💀 I’ve met literal children with stronger morals than you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i’m just having fun idc about your “feelings”. i thought you were gonna stop engaging with me? too obsessed?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Is mommys basement damp and dark? Or is the bed lonely and cold? Because this is the behavior of an incel who’s mad he doesn’t have access to lesbians lol. 4channer ass humor

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

you keep coming back to me for what? what’s your goal here? to argue with someone who doesn’t gaf about you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

I imagine youve never looked into a mirror incel, because you just described yourself lol.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

yeah still don’t get why you have to reply to me. or do you always go against your word? “i won’t be engaging anymore” or is that what all lesbians do?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

have you considered getting a life?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Hey man, i just got my masters degree and im sitting in bed laughing at you because i move out of state for my job 🤷‍♀️, laughing at a circus animal and engaging, despite me saying i wouldnt anymore, is fun. Do more tricks for me!

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Anonymous 1w

have you considered getting a life, and like, touching grass and making friends and relationships in real life? I think you would really benefit from it

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

You are my “nothing better to do” circus entertainment: the more you reply the more i giggle knowing youre a sad chud who sits in bed mad no one, especially lesbians, wants you

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Anonymous 1w

jokes on you because i already do. thats the thing about having relationships with others, you have sex. You should try going outside and making friends and living in the real world

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Anonymous 1w

Did a lesbian break your heart, silly circus seal? I bet it enrages you to know i got crazy head from my LESBIAN girlfriend this morning

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Be fr, when he goes outside he clears the room 🤮 BO smelling ass

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

People rape lesbians to prove this point. I was raped by a bi or pan man bc he wanted to give me a lesbian the full experience of being queer. Sadly I couldn’t just scroll, all I could do was cry, say no, and try to push the monster off of me

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

Oh yeah bro I’m sure there’s one guy out there who will fix me and make me straight again!

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1w

Read conversation above

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 1w

Its like all the phobics 😭 lesbophobic, biphobic, homophobic, acephobic, like just name any phobic and its thats 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 1w

As an asexual, I can confirm I do not like it 😂

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