I regularly get “she/her”d and “he/him”d by different people all in the same day, and at first I was really frustrated I wasn’t “passing” consistently but increasingly I’m like, no wait, this level of androgyny is actually kind of a serve
as a genderqueer person i basically consider this passing lol
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Anonymous5w
that's genuinely like awesome. you have a literal aura of mystery
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Anonymous5w
I’m cis and at work someone misgenders me on the phone at least once a day
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Anonymous#15w
exactly! I’m bigender and I used to think I wanted to be read near-exclusively as a man because I was so sick of only ever being seen as a woman. I guess it hadn’t occurred to me that I could achieve a middle ground
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Anonymous#25w
thank youuuu that’s kinda how it makes me feel 🙈 I love being Big Goth Of Indeterminate Gender