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I regularly get “she/her”d and “he/him”d by different people all in the same day, and at first I was really frustrated I wasn’t “passing” consistently but increasingly I’m like, no wait, this level of androgyny is actually kind of a serve
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Anonymous 5w

as a genderqueer person i basically consider this passing lol

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Anonymous 5w

that's genuinely like awesome. you have a literal aura of mystery

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Anonymous 5w

I’m cis and at work someone misgenders me on the phone at least once a day

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

exactly! I’m bigender and I used to think I wanted to be read near-exclusively as a man because I was so sick of only ever being seen as a woman. I guess it hadn’t occurred to me that I could achieve a middle ground

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

thank youuuu that’s kinda how it makes me feel 🙈 I love being Big Goth Of Indeterminate Gender

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