Anonymous #1 3w

but i am gay they said I am bi because of their preconceived notion that everyone is a little bit bisexual🤓🤓

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Anonymous #2 3w

no clue what your trying to say are they bi or not

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Anonymous OP 3w

YEAH i meant “you” as in the ppl saying that, fully agreeing w u here it’s wacky af when ppl say stuff like that bc… no lol not true at all

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Anonymous OP 3w

I assume they’re not bi since they were telling me bisexuality doesn’t exist and I’ll “figure myself out” and be straight or gay. My point is don’t tell people you know their sexuality better than they do.

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Anonymous #2 3w

They’re being so dumb. I’m bi. I thought I was exclusively into women for years. I do definitely like women. All of a sudden I like one man. Now I’m dating this man. Like. How do they explain this? Like. Bisexuality is the only explanation for this.

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Anonymous #5 2w

I mean you are correct in that expecting people to understand how we feel is not fair, but that’s different from telling someone they’re wrong about their gender/sexuality. I’m nonbinary and have had binary trans people tell me I’m still an egg/still closeted/fake trans. That’s more than “not understanding”, it’s blatant transphobia and I DO expect them to keep their opinions about MY OWN GENDER to themselves. Not understanding≠making rude comments invalidating people

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Anonymous #4 2w

crazy how you guys made this post about yourselves when it was about bisexuals telling everyone they’re bi. it’s not all about you guys jesus

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Anonymous OP 2w

I thought it was a post about having your sexuality invalidated and not about being blatantly biphobic

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Anonymous OP 2w

Damn, thought I would share my own experience as a “you’re not alone” thing. Believe it or not, this happens to people regardless of sexuality or gender.

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Anonymous #2 2w

but this was about bisexual thinking gays and lesbians are fluid and they’re not

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Anonymous #3 2w

well you were wrong it’s about bisexual people telling gays and lesbians sexuality is fluid for everyone so stfu

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Anonymous OP 2w

Right and neither are some people who are bisexual, and we get told the same thing. This is not something exclusive to any sexuality. There is no need to be rude. “Stfu” is unnecessary. If you didn’t want people commenting, you could have turned your comments off.

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Anonymous OP 2w

Sharing and complaining about a common experience is not “making it about ourselves”.

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Anonymous #2 2w

no I wanted people to share the same experience as me not some fuck ass bisexual playing the victim when i was telling my experience so yeah stfu

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Anonymous OP 2w

What you think is happening is not what’s happening.

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Anonymous #4 2w

I shared a post about myself being gay and bisexuals telling me that it’s impossible for me to be completely gay because sexuality is fluid. And some people yourself included go, “well actually gay people have said the same thing to me 🤓,” like fuck off

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Anonymous OP 2w

I wasn’t even talking to you. I was taking part in a discussion.

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Anonymous #2 2w

yes it is, it was literally about you guys what the fuck read the room

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Anonymous OP 2w

We are not playing the victim. We are sharing our experiences and just happen to be bisexual because believe it or not, it happens to people regardless of sexuality and is done BY people regardless of sexuality. I’ll reiterate that you opened yourself up to comments from the whole LGBTQ+ community, BISEXUALS INCLUDED. If you wanted bisexuals to not comment, you should have turned off comments.

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Anonymous #2 2w

We are doing the same thing as you are (sharing an experience in which we have been invalidated), so if we are playing the victim, then you are as well.

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Anonymous OP 2w

i think you need to calm down

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Anonymous bisexualbats 2w

I think you should know bettter than telling me what to do

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