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LGBTQIA+ 15h
Some of y’all would really benefit from having discussions with asexual people about what it’s like to be ace and what it means to different people Even if you don’t understand something, why be an ass about it?
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Anonymous 11h

It’s fine to admit you worded something wrong, but the way it was worded in the post was validating the ghosting situation without further explanation

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Anonymous 15h

this being downvoted is insane

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Anonymous 7h

I had someone on here tell me I shouldn’t be married because I’m ace… my husband is also ace.

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Anonymous 15h

I agree! I also think on the flip side that we need to be able to meet people where there are at knowledge wise and recognize that the majority of folks with a lack of knowledge about a community are not trying to be harmful when they incorrectly assume things about said community

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

True, however doing things like ghosting people over a normal incompatibility is unacceptable

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

I agree but I do not think that has anything to do with asexuality and has everything to do with the person doing the ghosting being immature.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

Just thought I’d mention it after that one person quoted that one ace post saying ghosting was valid

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Hm how weird I don’t see that post the only one I see is someone saying the opposite

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

op just a heads up #2 is the one who made that post

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

also the same person who made this post

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

Omg you being the same person makes literally infinity sense i understand everything now you just wanna get on here and be upset about some shit lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

Pls go ahead and just commit to the block save us both some headache

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

Because you deleted it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Gee maybe it was deleted because people were purposely misinterpreting it so that they could be mad!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11h

is it misinterpreting or is it you didn’t communicate clearly and youre blaming other for being confused

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