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I love being a ftm lesbian and having a beautiful life experience that transcends binary expectations of gender and sexuality
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Anonymous 19h

You go king!

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Anonymous 19h

Genuine question (not hate just uninformed!!), why do you identify as a lesbian rather than straight?

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Anonymous 16h

Same! gender is soooo diverse so why try to stick it in these tight boxes? We made ALL of this shit up! Why adhere to it?

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Anonymous 14h

So men CAN be lesbians?? 👀

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

I’m not fully a man, just transitioning my sex to male due to dysphoria. I don’t relate to a straight view of sexuality, and would feel too restrained by a straight woman viewing me as a straight man.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Ahhh I see, thank you for helping me understand ☺️

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Anonymous 19h

So my sex is female and I’m transitioning it to male. Female to male= ftm

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Anonymous 18h

Nope

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Anonymous 18h

I literally just explained

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Anonymous 18h

I do not feel as if my sexuality and gender “invalidate each other” and seeing as it is MY gender and MY sexuality, I think I might know a bit more than you

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Anonymous 18h

I’m not sure you know what bisexual means

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

I dont think they know what a lot of words mean

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Anonymous 18h

Hmmm calling trans people delusional I see

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Anonymous 18h

Also you can’t read

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Anonymous 18h

“Actual lesbian” you mean terf, dude (gender neutrally).

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Anonymous 18h

Not your fucking babe btw

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14h

Trans men can, yes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9h

As a trans man that honestly feels awful to hear someone say. OP stated they’re not fully a man so I’m not taking issue with their identity at all, but a trans MAN (i.e., fully a man) can’t be a lesbian. Not trying to be overly sensitive but knowing that so many people seem to view people like me as inherently less of men than other men sucks.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9h

I think it’s a weird grey zone where it’s less, yes man can be lesbians because trans men can be lesbians, and more of “trans men are men, but a few trans men identify as lesbians and I’m not going to fight them because I don’t know the extent of why they identify that way”

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 35m

Okay, a couple things. 1) CAN is a different word than ARE. Trans men CAN be lesbians, but ARE NOT inherently. 2) As a take, that’s… ahistoric. 3) It’s not that you are less of a man. It’s that some trans men are attracted to women, and not in a straight way. Not all trans men are binary men, not all lesbians are only attracted to binary women. Now can we please put this stupid ass discourse to rest…

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