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LGBTQIA+ 21h
Is it bad I have a hard time trusting people who aren’t in the community? Like I’ve had people who’ve claimed to be allies use everything I said to hurt me or out me to my family
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Anonymous 18h

I’m aroace and don’t trust most non-aspecs with details on my attraction, so I feel this

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Anonymous 10h

Good call. I’ve had “bisexual” friends who later claimed to be straight and then dated men who said homophobic slurs infront of me and when I called it out, she would defend him. I stopped talking to her and now she’s tryna act like nothing happened and crawl back to me bc “he was an asshole” and they broke up. Yeah, I already knew he was an asshole but homophobia was not a deal breaker for you, but it is for me. I will never be close to her again. Can’t trust these straight privileged fucks.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

and I don’t trust non-queer people with it at all lmao… even if they’re normal about gay people, it’s unlikely they’ll be normal about me in any capacity

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10h

I’ve had the same happen to me as someone who’s trans it’s truly the worst :( like your ex isn’t an excuse to hurt others

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

They say they’re allies when it serves them (makes them fit in to current society tends and avoid social suicide) but when it comes down to them and how they truly feel, they do not give a single fuck about us. It is selfish and they want us in their lives for selfish reasons too.

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