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LGBTQIA+ 2w
i do not relate to “unfortunately i like men” gays. men can be so beautiful and amazing, their voices so velvety and comforting, their uncontrollable smiles and giggles when you say something they find silly. i love men, and i love loving men.
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Anonymous 2w

“Unfortunately i like men” well fortunately i love them, and if you dont want them then that’s more for me

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Anonymous 2w

I really do love men. Playful dorks that try to hide their feelings around everyone but you (I mean that in a ‘get shit done’ sense, not a ‘toxically masculine’ sense)

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Anonymous 2w

i like men and unfortunately that can potentially put me in more unsafe situations than if i didnt. but i dont want to like women bc if i did then i would

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Anonymous 2w

tbh I’ve only heard women say that, which is valid cus misogyny is a bitch

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Anonymous 2w

“unfortunately i like men who i pick, which tend to me avoidant assholes” -me

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Anonymous 2w

This. 100 times this

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Anonymous 2w

Saying “unfortunately I like men” is something I’ll say sometimes if I’m really frustrated by like a crush or smth, but I genuinely am so glad to be gay and I think men are beautiful and amazing, and so incredibly sweet and cute

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Anonymous 2w

YES I LOVE MEN

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Anonymous 2w

Well I guess someone has to and it ain’t gonna be me

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Anonymous 2w

im leaving this community i cannot with yall anymore 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

i am a trans man and i also experience misogyny. not trying to say they’re not valid, just adding context

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

then you do realize a lot of people say that phrase specifically bc they’re referring to dealing with misogyny, right? like its not always the case that’s the context I’m most familiar with

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

they specifically said gay people who say that in the original post

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

yes i know. i’m not saying that’s not fair. i used to say the same thing, but i realized it only made me feel miserable and hopeless in love, and i have met so many wonderful men, that i choose to be wary of dangerous men, but still embrace my love for them

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

i am a gay trans man who experiences misogyny, being gay and experiencing misogyny are not mutually exclusive

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