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LGBTQIA+ 5w
I need to get this off my chest. I'm a transmasc amab that is demiromantic/sexual. I truly do not mind what the person identifies as, but I can't for the life of me feel comfortable around afab genitals. I think it's more of my gender dysphoria /1
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Anonymous 5w

I can barely think of my own, but like I enjoy the idea of being sexually with someone who has afab genitalia. But then the actual act of it just.... Throws me off. I can't figure it out

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Anonymous 5w

you don't owe anyone anything. if you are repulsed by vaginas or breasts, then you shouldn't get in a relationship with someone who has them or plans on getting them. you arent guilty of anything because of that. it's just your attraction, and that's okay.

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Anonymous 5w

If you’re not attracted to a body, you’re not attracted to it. That doesn’t mean anything about your character, it’s just your reality

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I feel so bad because I want to like it and feel like I can enjoy it but I just CAN'T. I don't know what to do. I want to be give my future partner the world. What do I do if the love of my life then is afab and I can't be who I want to be in that relationship?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

But it feels wrong to love someone yet not have the sexual attraction to them that I want :(

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