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Trying to explain to my straight male friends that that the believing it’s not as gay to top as it is to bottom is just just misogyny and homophobia but this is literally all they have ever known
199 upvotes, 16 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in LGBTQIA+. "Trying to explain to my straight male friends that that the believing it’s not as gay to top as it is to bottom is just just misogyny and homophobia but this is literally all they have ever known"
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Anonymous 2w

Like I said and I’ll keep saying it. Straight, cis men will always be the dumbest demographic of people, they’re not willing to learn anything, they laugh at the most stupidest things and they believe bs like this. Straight men actually believe that fucking anyone that’s born a male isn’t gay or bi especially if the person they’re fucking looks feminine. Even worse that a lot of them believe that taking dik and getting pegged isn’t gay or bi if it’s by a woman or a feminine individual.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

You had me until that last bit. All cisgender men have a prostate and I don’t think we should be calling them gay / they aren’t gay just cuz they wanna want to do stuff to stimulate that part of their body

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

That last sentence also has a flawed like of reasoning cuz people could extend this by saying “straight cis men who have sex with transgender women aren’t actually straight” which is simply false and transphobic

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Totally agree except for the end. From where I see it, men taking dick from a cis/trans woman, shouldn’t be seen as gay. Not only do I agree with what #2 said, but I also just think it imposes a lot heteronormative bullshit onto everyone, especially as we all mosey our way through a messy dating pool and how we see ourselves

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

But in the end, I ultimately believe the entire construct of gender is completely absurd, in a beautifully comedic yet scary way

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Hence why I said gay/bi. Str8 men like women but if they also like dik then they’re bi. A lot of them call themselves str8 despite the fact that a lot of them like dik in their ssa. It’s okay to be bi but just own up to it is what I’m saying.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

hard disagree man. if a man is with a trans woman that’s still a straight relationship, and thinking that if a straight guy gets topped by a trans woman he’s gay is entirely antithetical to this post

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

bisexuality is attraction to two or more genders. Last I checked, dick isn’t a gender. and you trying to say getting dicked down=being gay is literally the opposite of what op was tryna say 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Okay you’re not gay if you’re a guy with a transgirl. Getting pegged by a girl is also not gay. You’re only gay if you’re a man attracted to other men. The whole idea that liking anal penetration makes you gay is rooted in misogyny and homophobia.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

…attracted to other men solely and specifically**

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Also saying that it’s gay to like anyone who was born male is transphobic in this sense because you’re essentially saying transwomen are men.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Not a man. Don’t address me as such.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

There was a whole slew of paragraphs addressing the heteronormativity of your perspective. THAT’S the thing you chose to read?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i meant it neutrally but i understand why you wouldn’t like that, so i won’t do that again. got any other response to the actual points i made?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

They’re still silent 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

They just shit on the floor, then scolded you for stepping in it before they left 💀

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