LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | I am an asexual girl. I’ve had queerplatonic feelings for guys and girls and what I think are romantic feelings for a guy, once, and a nonbinary person once in my 24 years alive. I currently identify as greyromantic and/or nebularomantic. Is that correct?

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LGBTQIA+ 1d

I am an asexual girl. I’ve had queerplatonic feelings for guys and girls and what I think are romantic feelings for a guy, once, and a nonbinary person once in my 24 years alive. I currently identify as greyromantic and/or nebularomantic. Is that correct?

Anonymous 1d

Like, I have no clue how to identify beyond asexual and queer.

Anonymous 23h

if you’re not sure what your attraction is for any particular person, then nebulous is right. nebulous attraction is gray attraction so if one feels right for you then go with it. like the other commenter said tho, you can just call yourself aspec while you figure it out, but I understand wanting to find a label for yourself since it garners a better sense of community

Anonymous 1d

Big words 😵‍💫

Anonymous

#1 1d

Yeah, sorry. I’m just trying to figure myself out.

Anonymous

OP 1d

Queerplatonic feelings are feelings that blur the line between romantic and platonic, they aren’t quite either. Nebularomantic is a neurodivergence related identity where you have a very hard time determining if you’re experiencing romantic attraction or something else. I describe the feelings related as “big feelings.” And greyromantic is on the aromantic spectrum and is when you get romantic attraction rarely, with low intensity, or only under specific circumstances.

Anonymous

OP 1d

i feel you i gave up on labels i just call myself aspec now 😭 nice and vague

Anonymous

OP 1d

Sounds like you ate pretty in touch with your feelings and experiences which is awesome. Feel free to use any words to describe yourself, we dont gatekeep

Anonymous

#2 1d

At this point I think romance is more trouble than it’s worth. I have a friendship that’s hovering somewhere between romantic and platonic and I quite like where that’s at. Sometimes I do want to be on the receiving end of romantic love but at the same time, historically that level of devotion has made me uncomfortable more times than not.