Anonymous OP 3w

A lot of those kids are dealing with self hate that’s called dysphoria they don’t need the fucking world hating them on top of that. They don’t need your hate. And yes they have white privilege but you have cis privilege.

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Anonymous OP 3w

And last time i checked people stopped debating where you could piss, your family didn’t kick you out for being (insert race) and accepting that, and frankly your hate doesn’t just effect white trans people but the most marginalized people in the trans community who are fucking poc. They can’t find safety as easily as you they have to deal with bigotry from all fucking sides. And that bigotry includes yours. Your marginalized identity doesn’t excuse you shitting on other marginalized communities

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Anonymous #1 2w

Oh def… and yet I’ve experienced it from poc a lot and I have no idea why and I feel more hurt by it than white bigots because I’ll be out there advocating and then someone will turn around and say some shit like this and I’ll be like I’m your ally why can’t you be mine and I know like I know it’s hurting poc queer people the most and that fucks with my head in so many ways because they are not only part of my community but part of yours. I had a friend awhile back who we had this huge friend…

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Anonymous OP 2w

Break up. But some of the things she had said were foul just foul. We were drunk and walking and she turned to me and said if the police approach us let her do the talking and I obviously agreed because well black kids are often coached on how to talk to police but then she pulled out the “and this is my friend he’s trans” mind you I pass as a woman and I was like no no no don’t tell them that for the love of god if police approach us do not tell them that and she kept insisting that she should.

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Anonymous OP 2w

She went off about her ex friend who was “not trans” (this was her opinion) we actually saw them on the street their black too and she started yelling at them things and part of me wonders if they just stopped interacting with her and like detrans around her because she was foul towards them and it would just be easier to interact with her that way. And don’t get me started on the trans woman thing.

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Anonymous OP 2w

But I’ve just been sitting on this issue with her and then I went into the coffee shop like not long after the friend break up and I hear this shit and I’m like for the love of god folks… why is this so normalized in communities that based on their own experiences their own fucking experiences should understand what trans people and queer people are going through I mean seriously they have bathroom bills rn doesn’t that ring any bells…

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Anonymous OP 2w

For reference I’m a trans man helpful for understanding the police thing… if I was a trans woman I probably would’ve been out of there a lot quicker she would have been extra foul towards me I think.

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