
keeping my presentation somewhat fluid has been my answer to a similar conundrum. been on T for a few years now, just aiming for a more androgynous type of look so I can switch it up as I see fit—I take finasteride + low-dose topical estrogen too to modify / “customize” my transition and I’ve kept my hair long. ended up settling on being bigender, personally
but to be clear you can ofc also be a binary trans man and still present in multiple different ways, whether you’re on T or not. for me though, being read by strangers as multiple different genders all in the same day is kind of a dream come true, so I made peace with knowing myself to be a man And a woman 👯