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I dont know if im trans man or just genderfluid please help. I still like doing makeup and dressing in more “feminine” clothing but i dont feel like a girl in a way my friends do at least. Ive always been more masculine idk anymore but im scared.
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Anonymous 5w

omg i am in the exact same boat rn. i identify as genderfluid and present masc on some days and fem on other days. being a feminine trans man is valid, and being genderfluid is too! i’m still figuring out my own gender as we speak lol it’s a journey :)

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Anonymous 5w

keeping my presentation somewhat fluid has been my answer to a similar conundrum. been on T for a few years now, just aiming for a more androgynous type of look so I can switch it up as I see fit—I take finasteride + low-dose topical estrogen too to modify / “customize” my transition and I’ve kept my hair long. ended up settling on being bigender, personally

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

but to be clear you can ofc also be a binary trans man and still present in multiple different ways, whether you’re on T or not. for me though, being read by strangers as multiple different genders all in the same day is kind of a dream come true, so I made peace with knowing myself to be a man And a woman 👯

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