Anonymous #1 18h

they gotta be paid

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Anonymous #1 18h

honestly it’s more about the comments than the posts. There’s always multiple people like ‘I’m not <whatever identity> BUT…’ and then proceeds to have a strong opinion on that identity. And then people who actually are that identity will disagree and they will literally tell them they’re wrong about their own identity. It’s so. tiring. and so. common.

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Anonymous #1 18h

I know trans and genderqueer people get this a lot, but I also see it a lot as a lesbian too 😭

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Anonymous #4 14h

since someone’s gonna ask, I’m a pansexual lesbian. it’s a dual label originating from the Split Attraction Model, so no I’m not calling myself just “a lesbian,” since “pansexual lesbian” is distinct from that. and no, my identity won’t make straight men think lesbians are attracted to them, since I don’t tell anyone who’s not queer.

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Anonymous #4 14h

So that’s definitely not a thing

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Anonymous #3 14h

the way everyone has to have an opinion on topics they clearly know nothing about…

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Anonymous #3 14h

legit not going to debate my identity for the 400th time, can y’all be normal about varioriented people for once oml. look it up if it confuses you so goddamn much.

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Anonymous #3 14h

It definitely is. This isn’t that complicated 😭

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Anonymous #1 13h

Yeah no you can’t be a lesbian and pansexual that’s not a thing you’re just pansexual. So in this case 100% not valid

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Anonymous #4 13h

Variorientation is not a thing outside discord. My suggestion is get offline. Hope this helps.

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Anonymous #3 13h

Did you not read the part where she mentions the split attraction model? You can be pansexual homoromantic my peep

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Anonymous #3 13h

Says you. What, are you a scholar of sexuality studies? Did you get a doctorate in Other People’s Inner Worlds? Or are you just some guy on the internet?

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Anonymous #3 13h

have you heard of asexual lesbians? apply the same logic to pansexual lesbians. I experience sexual attraction to all genders, and I experience romantic attraction like a lesbian. looking this up instead of acting like a pundit on queer theory would’ve saved everyone time.

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Anonymous #3 13h

people say the same about trans people, and we can recognize that as a transphobic stereotype. keep reusing bigoted language, I guess. hilarious that you believe the lived experience of other queer people until it challenges your preconceptions.

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Anonymous #3 13h

variorientation is the group that non-aroace aspecs fall into, btw. I know multiple varioriented aspec people irl, maybe you just don’t get out much? engage with your irl queer community and maybe it’ll “exist outside of discord” 💀

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Anonymous #1 10h

You’re literally just some guy on the internet with neither of those credentials. The difference is I’m not stupid

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Anonymous #4 10h

Trans and made up labels are not the same thing. You can’t be gay/lesbian and bi/pan at the same time.

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Anonymous #4 10h

I do engage with my queer community irl it just so happens my queer community isn’t discord mods and gofundme queers

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Anonymous #1 10h

Not a thing

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Anonymous #3 10h

True! But you know who IS an expert on the sexuality and inner world of #4? #4 is. And you aren’t listening to them.

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Anonymous #4 10h

Sorry I’m not wasting my time at the school of tumblr and discord “intellectualism”

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Anonymous #3 10h

Dude, my peep, Google the split attraction model I beg you And also realize that no good comes from telling people what their sexuality is

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Anonymous #3 10h

WHAT 😭 dude it’s not up for debate, the split attraction model is sexuality 101

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Anonymous #1 10h

the way #3 blocked me after saying “nuh uh it’s different” then going back to random insults instead of conjuring any sort of point lol

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Anonymous #4 10h

blocked me and made an entire new post too I’m crying 😭 they’re so pressed after throwing insults instead of any actual logic lol

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Anonymous #4 10h

I’m blocked now too 😭

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Anonymous #3 8h

…..you really said all that just to be wrong. Like. My brother in Christ you’re part of the problem. Lay off the pride and get off the high horse and google some shit

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Anonymous OP 8h

And then makes a comment about the community being an easy target when, and imma say it again. Brother You Are The Issue. Like. Did we lose the ability to have self awareness?

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Anonymous #4 8h

Girl I get not wanting to like use the word ‘homoromantic’ and using lesbian instead cus that’s a long ass word and most people have never even heard it before 😭 I went through a phase when I thought I was bisexual homoromantic but then I figured out I’m just a lesbian all around 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

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