
fr. i think bi for bi/lesbian for lesbian is FINE if it's for the right reason. like just finding people with the same experiences as you more attractive, that's perfectly fine. but like you said, refusing to date a bi girl simply because she's attracted to men or has slept with a man before is man-centered and honestly giving purity culture. that being said i'm sure it's a very vocal minority of lesbians and the majority of lesbians are probably chill