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LGBTQIA+ 4w
Genuinely can’t tell if I’m bisexual or a lesbian…I reallllllyy like girls, but occasionally there will be a guy I think is cute. But I could also never see myself being with a guy. Need some advice 😓
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Anonymous 4w

It really depends on how you feel towards these guys yk? How deep does that attraction go? Because there was a time where I would notice a guy was attractive on the surface level but they never developed into actual crushes like ive gotten with women, I never wanted to date or actually get intimately involved with them on any level,

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Anonymous 4w

i'm lowkey the same way but genderswapped... i just call myself queer atp because gay feels too restrictive and bi doesn't feel like restrictive enough lol

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Anonymous 4w

i’m very gay but will still occasionally see a woman i think is stunning 🤷‍♂️ but that’s all it really is, a recognition of “wow, she’s gorgeous” but then i don’t really feel actually attracted towards her or want to be with her if that makes sense lol

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Anonymous 4w

homoromantic, bisexual perhaps

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

That kind of sums of how I think of guys tbh, I’ll look at them and think they’re cute, but I never actually get crushes on them, however when I think about girls it feels more real, like I actually want to be with them

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Also one of my friends (who im not exactly the closest with yet) is going through this rn, im lowkey tempted to reach out to her and talk to her about it because i dont think the rest of her friend group is really understanding how that struggle really is but i don’t want her to feel like I’m trying to be intrusive or push her towards one thing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yeah i would maybe look into trying to see if it’s comphet then since that’s what it was for me personally

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

okay nvm that doesn't sound bisexual I think you like girls honey

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